The object of your affection is a catalyst to your own emotions.

It is typically assumed that we receive love from another and that is the source of the love.  When in actuality the object of our affection is simply a catalyst to our own emotions.  The object of affection brings us to a state where we allow ourselves to feel love.  We are the generator of the love.  Yes, while we may feel warmth and affection from a love or pet, they are not the creator of our love.  When this is understood, we will never have to spend a day without love.  There is no reason to pine the absence of love, for we are our own creator of love.

That is not to say that we should not want to connect with another or to feel appreciated. Those are very beautiful experiences to share with another.

Notice how easily you can transfer love to an animal that is the same breed as your pet.  You start feeling love for that animal because you have already learned to love something very similar in appearance.  You are the creator of the love.  The animal is only the catalyst.  Learn to generate your own love and you will always be filled with love.

Once a mother has a baby she responds more affectionately to other babies.  Those babies are not the object of her love but she has learned to love a baby.  She has developed something inside of herself, an appreciation for new life, when new life is presented to her she is now able to flip that switch inside of herself to allow herself to feel the love. The baby is the catalyst and the mother is the love generator.

There is no reason to ever walk this earth for one single day without feeling love.  That is why many have said it is most important to love yourself, only after that will you be able to love anything else.  You are always with yourself, when you become your own catalyst for love there is nothing in this universe that can deny you love.  Only you can deny yourself love.

When we can see ourselves for the the powerful beings that we are, to see our full potential, we slowly lift away the veil that is blocking us from seeing all that there is.  Only our mind can enslave itself, there is always absolute emotional free will.

If you are constantly thinking that you must find love and you do not look within, where the seed of all the love you feel lives, how will you ever attract that to yourself in a person?   Love yourself and then state to the universe that you would like a mate, to share your love, enjoy experience and spend time, then see what the universe brings you.

Whether you look at this subject from a spiritual sense or from a biological sense, love is created inside of you.  Your body creates the hormones needed for your mind to feel love.  You do not take a substance  from another being for that reaction to occur in your body.  You could be given synthetic hormones to create that a biological response without a love in sight.  When you fully understand yourself as a creator, you begin to create the reality that which you truly want.

While love is created from within, this does not mean that we should not desire or seek out others.  Partners are a vastly important part of life.  However, when going into relationships, understand what the partnership is for.  It is to experience activities and moments together.  To have love in that relationship is your choice, you manufacturer the love, it resides within.

Love is free to all, at all times.  You choose the catalyst. Only you set the limitations on your emotional state.  To move into the state of bliss, you remove all barriers and love all.  When you love all, you are love.  The purest state possible in existence. No walls, no barriers, ALL ARE ONE.


Authenticity in Connections

Inauthenticity in external presence and connections is a common theme in many youths lives.  This can be an essential mode to learn more about the authentic self and how to create genuine connections.  For others it becomes a life long habit.  This can become a viscous cycle of creating an inauthentic persona to gain acceptance. Then not being accepted because of inauthenticity.

With a lack of understanding of our energetic signature and how that effects others, it is easy to keep making the same mistakes and not understand how it came about.  We are energetic beings, we give off an energetic signature at all times.  It is similar to the gravitational pull of the moon, in the sense that we interact on a certain level will all things around of us without physically touching them.  When we don’t live as our authentic selves we can create discord in our lives.  This discord can be far reaching and create much sadness if there is not an understanding of the underlying principals.

If we live with a sense of this is where I “should” fit in, live, work, etc.  Your energy can be perceived as inauthentic and to some and this will create discord and the complete opposite.  To resonate with the feeling of “I should” instead of “I am”  energetically can give of the feeling to others that you are not.  Then you could be perceived as being out of place in the place you desperately want to be.  It is quite different to say “I should be an artist” instead of “I am an artist”.

If you are creating a persona, a false self because of a desire to be liked, loved, or to fit in, there will be many difficulties along the way.  We are each like a divine, unique music note.  To sing against your natural range would lose the beauty of your song.  Your unique self has something to offer that no other can do, not to be your self in entirety is a disservice to yourself and all of creation.

The more you become aligned to your authentic self the easier it becomes to see lack of alignment of others to their own.  If your heart’s desire is to become an artist but you sit in the emotional bubble of I should be an artist, that gallery is where I should work; all the people that sit in their own genuine authority that are artists will sense that lack of alignment in yourself.  This could easily create a feeling by them that the gallery is not where you should be.  This is not to say that they are judging you, they are reflecting the very energy that you have presented to them.  When you can claim the calling of your heart, that will become your identity, your service and no man will ever be able to deny you that.  While they may say your art is not their style or to their liking, they cannot deny the artist in the man.  What man could step forward and say Michaelangelo or Da Vinci is not an artist?  Anyone who would make those claims would be seen as untruthful in that.

When you can step into your heart calling and give attention to that desire you will start living in your authenticity.  However, anything that happened prior to that, is not to say you where not “on your path”, as some would like to say.  A long portion of the journey on the path is discovering exactly what you are not.  You are always on your path.  You create your path with every step you take.  It is is YOUR PATH!  You walk, you claim it!  There is no deadline, there is no definition, every step along that path is yours alone.

As you fall into alignment with your truth, your development can come along very quickly, especially at the beginning when you have so much latent, unused energy stored up.  There may be times along the road where you have to reevaluate the journey.  It is good to check in along the way with how you feel.  While sometimes following our path there might be pain, obstacles or uncertainty.  At times along the path when you don’t feel certain, it could mean you have outgrown that place along the path and it is time to move on, to bigger things, it is time to push yourself.  It could also mean that you may have taken on too much to fast, or material gains have blocked you from working on yourself.  Whatever the feelings are they are unique to your situation.  Those are cues that your energy is off kilter and it is time to check back in and reevaluate the situation.  When you feel disconnected those feelings give off energy to others and that may hinder you in connecting authentically with others.

Fear of Love and the Authentic Self

Are you afraid of being truly who you are because you feel you are not lovable?  Yet, the person that was meant to love you, needs you to be the person that you truly are.  When you become a personality and not your authentic self, you create an illusion.  That illusion will always be detrimental to your relationship.  How can a partner fall or stay in love with an illusion?  The paradox of this situation is that the personality created out of fear to keep love, will always create the exact opposite of that desire.  Things created in deception and disillusion will never create something that is of a high quality.  Perfection through the eyes of Source is not to say without flaws.  Flaws are lovable, acceptable, honest and a moment in time.  A flaw may be a characteristic of a soul, but it is not the defining essence. Source does not measure flaws against worthiness, a flaw maybe be nothing more than a way to shine light into an area that needs work, healing or awareness.  There is no reason for you to see your flaws, imperfections or past experiences as a setback from love.

Genuine authenticity with flaws creates an environment for growth and for genuine love.  Many times an imperfection in a partner allows an opportunity for growth in both partners.  When life is seen as potential for learning and growth, many fears subside and things seen as obstacles can become beneficial challenges.  Sometimes being vulnerable with our flaws is the exact catalyst a partner needs to take their own journey of introspection and healing.

At times, when love is nowhere sight, this could be exactly the place where you need to be.  Without the distraction of a relationship, take time to look deeply into yourself and direct your love exactly where it needs to be, yourself.  Our higher selves are always reading and evaluating others around us.  What would a vibe of a lack of love for yourself say to potential mates?  Would their higher self not question your ability to love them?  See this time without a partner a time needed to connect with yourself.  A genuine love and appreciation for yourself will create a confidence that is noticeable when you are out looking for a mate.  This will bring you more inline with your authentic self and attract the right partner to you.

You Have No Downfall

A man that doesn’t know God, doesn’t know himself. When we were separated from Source, we started at the beginning of our journey. There is no downfall in your life, there is nothing that you can do, or that can be done to you to create more distance from Source. After the initial disconnect there is nothing that is not a lesson to bring you closer to Source. Even when you are in your darkest moment of trial, you are still closer to Source than you were before the trial started. There is never anything that can create distance, even what you may consider darkness or distance from Source is not. You are a part of Source in an ever changing, creative moment. There will always be more to learn, there will always be a chance to get closer. It is our journey. At times along the path there is stagnation. The discomfort felt at this time is a signal to break the cycle. To keep moving, that is all we will ever do, move, change, create, learn, love, learn to be. To be ever changing is our nature. No two sunrises will ever look the same, it not our nature to be the same either. Every moment is precious, even the hard moments, for there is so much that can be gained from it. Many times when going through a painful situation, we feel that something has been taken from us. That is quite the contrary, a space has been created inside of us to fill. It is our choice how we fill the space, with love and compassion or hate. Many times that space requires forgiveness. That is not to condone what has been done, it is for us to realize we are more than our hurts and we can consciously choose to fill ourselves with love and not dwell on hate.

Source is the only immutable presence there is. Since Source resides in us, in everything, that is to balance our ever changing nature. With the movement of our soul there must be stability, motionless. The empty space allows for moment of the dense. This is not to say the dense does not have space, the dense must have space as well. It is always a balance of creation. One must be, to allow the other to change. That is our dance. That is the love of our creator, our Source, to simply exist to allow the space for us to dance, to create, to learn.

There should be no fear in doing it wrong, the fear of change many times denies us the movement forward that we desperately need. Fear of change is a fear of ourselves, a fear that we are not good enough, smart enough or simply have enough luck to get through the obstacle. Those fears lock us into place and deny us our natural nature of change and movement. What if we attempted to tackle the obstacle and created another issue or failed again? Sometimes that will happen. You are eternal, to have an expectation that everything should fall into place, every single time denies us the contrast of how great we can be. The power seen in the phoenix when it rises from the ashes could never been seen if the transformation and accomplishment were not so great. Sometimes the deeper into the darkness you go the closer you are to a miracle. The only thing that can prevent the miracle is the lack of moment and change on your part. Sometimes things will get worse before they get better. That is sometimes how the story unfolds. If you come into a life with many trials you have chosen the life path of the warrior. You have chosen this life to fight the war, the war of the Self. It is always your choice, if you will stop somewhere along the journey, or continue on to be the hero.

One of the first steps in walking in a hero’s shoes is to know your power, you are eternal, you are a creator. If you limit all that you are to this one, very short life, you will deny yourself your full power. You are forever, you will always be learning, growing. Many life lessons are very hard, near impossible to understand if you view it from a limited perspective of a single lifetime. There is nothing that will ever disconnect you form Source. However, it will always be your choice to feel the connection. But, always remember you are always loved, you are always known in entirety. There is never a single action that would cast you out of this, only your perspective of it.

Things Created By Ego – channeled through Sophia

The bigger the ego gets the larger and thicker the wall of separation.  When you work through ego you manifest through your own will, not by Divine will and grace.  All things created through ego will fade, strength, beauty, education, status, power, etc.  Many don’t realized the difference in how the creation is brought forth will alter how the object will stay in creation, how it is perceived by the universe and the effects it has on the creator.  The energy behind creation is always linked to the intention through which it was brought forth.  Though not always present to others on the surface, the energy signature is always known to source.   Alignment with source is not always necessary to create, but always necessary for permanence.  When you create only for yourself, through your own energy and efforts it will always require your own energy to maintain it.   Things created in love, in co-creation with Spirit, God, the All that Is, is effortless and in balance.  All ARE one, when in spirit and there is always more than enough for all.  There is no lack of anything, for anyone, when in Spirit.  One does not have to take from another for ownership or creation when in Spirit.  Ego says there is a limited supply and you must take from others or push others down to step into that very small, number one slot.

Knowing true abundance is also key.  Abundance is having everything to meet your needs, when your needs arise.  That is much different than hoarding.  If you are one person and you have a warehouse full of food, that is not abundance, that is greed.  Hoarding and greed are actions caused by ego, not spirit.    Ego drives desires for statues, some go to school only to be the best, get prestige and power rather than from a desire and appreciation for knowledge.  They spend years in school, thousands on education and live a life with a very inflated ego because of their gains.  Yet they have no control if  they would get dementia, alzheimers and forget everything they knew that put them above others.  The world’s greatest creators created from a passion of learning, a desire for knowledge.  The love of music brought forth the greatest symphonies ever known.  The ability to fly was once  a dream by two brother,  their belief in the possibility of what could not be understood by others at that time.  Creations through ego are only lessons for the individual in the lacking of self when not connected to Spirit, if they choose to see that.

Some spend all their time focused on  beauty and how much better they are than everyone else because of their beauty, yet they have no control on time, beauty will always fade with age.  Yet, beauty from the soul is visible in the eyes of a baby or the elderly, anyone, because it is authentic beauty.  The light of the Divine can shine through anyone, it is not limited to someone with a perfect body, a straight nose or perfect hair.  When aligned to truth and the Divine, some can see right through the false pride developed beauty.  That is not to say that everything beautiful is wrong; beauty developed through appreciation and love is Divine.  Goodness and beauty can be the same, that is not to say that beauty from the Divine is defined equally as beauty judged by society.   Spirit sees beauty in all creation, in the imperfect.  Spirit even sees beauty in the damaged, the lame just as much as so as the beauty claimed perfect by society.   It is easy to see this in nature, a crooked tree, a lumpy potato and mangy dog, when seen through the eyes of the Divine it is seen in perfection, through the eyes of love.  When your fellow man is seen as less than you, you are in judgement and not inline with the Divine consciousness.  To see another as less than yourself, to set yourself apart from another is to deny yourself.  Creating separation in this manner denies yourself the fullness that is available to you.  When you deny or put down another, it is yourself that is denied.  Only this can be true.   Just as every snowflake is unique, yet they are all snow.  Unique and completely the same can always be true.  Only when our true nature is denied, our full potential is denied.  Only you deny, Spirit never denies, infinite patience allows for free will.  You are always in choice.  Choosing to align with the Divine opens a doors of creation that is not possible by our on free will alone.  When you work only to bolster your ego, it is like building castles in the sand.  In time, all your work will wash away.

Things created in love, created through heart knowledge of the Divine with no intention of separation are eternal.  When you create to include, creations of love, that are offered to be shared with all will never fade away.  They are guided by Grace.  One must not assume that which is hidden is lost.  Hidden is a perspective, all knowledge is available to all, at any moment.  The divide from that is always dependent on the seer, not the divine.  Time spent on seeing the Divine in your Brothers and Sisters becomes truth.  Love spans the Universe and lifetimes, it is eternal.  Always be of service in light to all with compassion and forgiveness.  Create connections, connections allow us to remember we are together.  Do not live in fear of your brother and sister, seeing them if fullness allows space for their true nature, the Divine spark in their hearts to shine.  What you can see in truth, will also be seen in you.  There is no power lost in humility and kindness, quite the opposite, when you do not allow anyone to be your enemy, you have none.  You can walk with a peaceful consciousness.  When you consider no one your enemy, you are not preparing war in your mind.  The space is open to create from a place of love.  That which is created in love is eternal, held in balance with Divine power.  War will never be eternal, things acquired through war will never be peaceful nor eternal.

We are all one in God and God is one in all.  Any creation outside of God becomes a barrier that must be broken to return to God in fullness.  But God has never left, only our perception changed because of barriers created between him.  We are creators, sometimes when we bring our our own creations into manifestation we feel powerful.  We feel better than others. How many times does one not evaluate the quality of the creation?   Can you look at all that you create and say that it is good?  God looked at all that he created and said that is it is good.  Good, not perfect.  Evaluate your creations, in goodness, not perfection by Man’s standards.  When you create in loving kindness with your fellow men and the intention is for good, there may be bumps in the road, there maybe hardship,  that is not to say there is not goodness.  Livings through man’s expectations of perfection is different than seeing she situation through the eye’s of God.  See yourself as lovable today, just as you are,  not when you feel perfect, and you will see Divine love.  When looking upon a mountain range in entirety, it is very beautiful, you do not pick apart every craggy edge.  You just see the whole and admire it for exactly what is it is.  We are seen exactly the same way by the Divine, when we are seen in our entirety, seen as whole, we are seen in our glory and loved.  Always, always, alway loved!

Channeled Message


Channel message from Sophia

Energy, Beloved, we were all one People.  We have been together for forever. We will always be together.  It is a choice to accept the connection and and how  deep you will choose to let the connection go.  To the Creator there is no doubt, He is consciously connected to all, there is no doubt.  There is no resistance. Like water He flows into every crevice, over time he will wear down any barrier, with ease. It is a flow.  We all are in flow.  We choose to resist.  We choose to paddle away from the current. It is human nature. It is our way.

I make a choice today to love you, love you in your wrong.  To see beyond the outside, to look past the mistakes and behold the divinity inside.   To embrace you with my love, to open your heart, so you can heal the wounds.  Once broken, now becomes whole.  Through the love of one, that is for all.

All Are One in Spirit

If I was you, I wouldn’t be me!

I am not aware that we are connected through the veins of loving energy.

Connect by God, loved as one.

When you lose, I lose, too.

I just don’t realize it through fear,

fear that I wouldn’t be me, if I was you.

That is not true, you are always you and I am always me.

However, separated we will never be.

When I win don’t forget to cheer, you win as well, have no fear.

When I see myself as whole without fear, I can truly see you are,

as an extension of myself.

When I rage war inside myself, I sometimes forget,

that when I hurt your I hurt myself.

I don’t have to hide from you, you are not my enemy.

I can let you see my soul, all of my spirit’s energy,

without judging myself about how you perceive me.

The divide I create from my God-given wholeness is the distance I measure from you, my Brother.

When I can say, Sister, I am whole, complete and love, I will know I can take your hand and walk through eternity with you,


in competition, always in complete, harmonious love.